Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 44 year old woman and I’ve been attending a church in my city for about 7 months now. It’s a small church and I love the members and I am truly blessed weekly by the beautiful sermons the pastor preaches. The pastor is my age, single and fine. After I began attending the church, the pastor and I became friends on social media, which wasn’t unusual because he’s big on promoting the church through social media and, like I said, he’s single..................