Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and it was really good for the first year. We spent a lot of quality time together and got to know each other by going on great dates. Now that we’ve been together a while and he’s started saying that he loves me, he feels it’s enough to make me happy. He won’t do the things he did in the beginning. I don’t get flowers anymore and he doesn’t take me to lunch like he used to.................