Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a female in my mid-twenties, and I started a new job a few months ago. While I love it, I'm planning to put in my notice because I found a better paying job. My work environment is very challenging for me because the entire time I am at work, I’m fantasizing about my boss. When I’m at home, I’m always thinking about him and when I get dressed for work daily, I dress to get his attention.................................................