Dear Steve and Shirley, This one is short and sweet. I actually want Tommy's opinion too if that’s ok. I've been married to a wonderful man for the past 12 years and we have a great marriage. I have done any and everything to make him happy. Most importantly we have a very exciting sex life. I often let him have threesomes and I've started to really enjoy them myself but there was a big problem. Our threesomes are always with females..........