Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 25 years to my soulmate and we had a great life, until 3 years ago when I caught him cheating. One night when he was supposedly hanging out with his boys, he called me and said he was too drunk to drive home. I offered to go get him, but he said he was going to sleep it off and come home soon. I called to check on him at 6am and a woman answered his phone...............