Dear Steve and Shirley. Hey Tommy. My mom is 52 years old and she's been dating this guy for ten years. It's very good to her He wines and dines her and spoils her with gifts and money. He also attends our family events and holiday celebrations with her. Whenever I need anything, he's been there for me. So here's my issue. He lives three hours away and when he comes to visit my mom he rarely stays a full weekend with her at our at her house. He has two children but my mother has never met them. He says he is divorced but I don't believe him............