Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 54 year old married man and I had an affair with a 27 year old female. I texted my wife of 17 years to tell her that I’d met a younger woman and fell in love with her. I let my 80% happiness go, for a woman that only provides 20% of the love and happiness I need. I have a 5 month old daughter with the younger woman that I’m seeing. She already had 4 children and I help her with her other kids too...................