Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a confession to make and I know I can count on Steve to give it to me straight. I’m a divorced female and I work as a corporate trainer. I’m 49 years old and I have one daughter and a granddaughter. Last fall, I was called to train staff at an insurance agency. One of the male trainees got my attention and asked me for a business card before I left. He left a message on my office phone and invited me to dinner the next night. I knew he was a bit younger than I am, but I was flattered and went on a date with him....................