Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 22 years to a fool who thinks I’m crazy. He works 2 jobs and takes great care of me but I think he resents me because I never had children for him. At first, we agreed that we didn’t want kids, but now we’re almost 50 and he said he wants a son. Because of that, he has become very involved with a neighborhood friend’s son. I thought he was being a good neighbor, but now I think he is using the boy to get to his mama.........................