Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in my late 40s and I’m married to a wonderful man.We had a very normal sex life until he had a car accident and became disabled. We haven’t had sex in almost two years now. We have tried everything, but nothing has worked for us. I am suffering, but I do not want to cheat on him. One night we were watching a strange movie where a man in the movie did not want to have sex with his wife anymore, so he paid a man to have sex with her and he would watch them. Since I saw that movie, I couldn’t get this idea out of my head..........