Dear Steve and Shirley, I really hope you can help. I am 41 and my husband is 43 years old. We’ve been together for a total of 13 years and married for 10. Throughout our relationship there have been situations where my husband was getting attention from lots of different women and entertaining them on the side. This was all before social media got amped up. I would notice him buying new clothes or working out more and I just knew some woman must’ve complimented him or told him he had nice arms or something................