Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 44 year old woman who's been with a man for 5 years and he has had the same complaint for 5 years. He always whines about me knowing too many men. I was raised in the city we live in and my father was a prominent businessman and my family is well-known. When my boyfriend and I would go out, I'd run into guys that I grew up with, guys I worked with, went to high school or college with, etc. These are men that I’ve never dated or had sex with..................