Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 35 and my husband is 42 years old. I met him at a gas station 3 years ago and he had a cast on his leg and he was trying to pump gas. I saw he was struggling, so I went to assist him. We stood and talked for a few minutes and then he asked me out. The rest is history. We moved in together a year or so later and that’s when I realized that I fell in love with a soft man that is fine with a woman leading him......................