Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for three years and he cheated before our wedding. We met in an online chat room and he said I had all of the values that he desired in a wife. He quoted some scripture and I was hooked. He’d been married before and he said his biggest problem was that his wife was not submissive. He said she was stubborn and argumentative. I was 48 when we got married and it was my first marriage, so I aimed to please him and do everything just like he asked me to.........................................