Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for five years and it is a second marriage for us both. My issue is my 46 year old step daughter that has been inviting her mother everywhere for years. My husband divorced his first wife in 1987 and his daughter is still including this woman in all of our family functions. The ex-wife is the daughter’s best friend and they do everything together. I don’t have a problem with them being best friends, but I draw the line at her coming to family functions that I throw................