Dear Steve and Shirley, I feel like I already know my answer, but I want your advice anyway. My partner and I have been dating for 7 years. Yes, seven! We are both divorced and have adult children. He is 63 and I am 49. His ex-wife and I have become good friends and she has told me that he’s a good man, but a terrible husband. We live in a big beautiful home but it’s in his name only. He treats me like a queen in front of others, but behind closed doors, he’s a different man..................