Dear Steve and Shirley, my family has a church that they’ve been going to all their life and I recently joined. I decided to devote my life to fellowship and service at this church. My pastor is great but I always thought he was a bit creepy because of the strange relationship he has with my cousin. I had been watching them for a while and then in a stewardship meeting, my pastor mistakenly called my cousin “babe or bae” and she blushed. Immediately after the meeting, I asked my cousin what’s up with her and pastor and she got all awkward and tried to lie at first, but then she ended up spilling the beans.............