Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. At the beginning, everything was perfect, but then I started checking his phone and I saw messages between him and a lot of different ladies. He usually texts one girl more than others so it seems like he is really trying to get to know her. I questioned him about the text messages and he promised that he would stop talking to all of the girls. We had a big blow up that night, but I let it slide........