Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 49 year old, divorced woman with 2 grown children. Two years ago, I prayed that God send me a real good man and life partner. I was dating with a purpose and I had a list of non-negotiables and must-haves. Six months into praying and dating, I met the most incredible man and he checked off nine of the ten boxes on my list. He lives in a different state, so either I visit him or he comes to see me twice a month...............