Dear Steve and Shirley, about 6 years ago, I wrote in to get some advice about a woman I was messing with. You may not recall my letter, but I’m married and I was having an affair with a lady and it was getting out of control. I was very connected with this woman and I had started paying her bills and helping her take care of her children. The children had grown fond of me and had no idea that I was married and had another life with my wife................