Dear Steve and Shirley, I dated a guy off and on for about 3 years but we never had sexual relations because I was having myself a good time dating several men at once and I was celibate. He was a perfect gentleman and had every quality that I prayed for in a man, but I wasn’t ready to settle down. Now that I’m 29, I decided it was time. My heart lead me back to the guy I’d been casually dating and he was still single and he still wanted me............