Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old woman and in my past I messed around with a man that was married and I was living my best single life. I was getting what I needed as far as money and great sex from my married man and a few other men I had on the side. Hey, I was young and enjoying myself. I kept it classy and I made sure my reputation stayed intact. I was in the clubs in short dresses and heels every weekend..........................................