Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 53-year-old man and my fiancé is 35. We’ve been together for 4 years and from the beginning, she told me she wanted to be a mother. I was married before and I’ve got 3 children… and I’ve had a vasectomy. As our relationship got serious, I told her I could get my vasectomy reversed and I would give her a baby. I visited my doctor and I was told that I had a bit of scar tissue from the surgery, so it could not be reversed.................