Dear Steve and Shirley, My wife and I met when we were 12 years old and we got married when we were 20 years old. We've been married for 15 years and we were very happy until recently. Now I need help to save my marriage. Three years ago I cheated on my wife and got another woman pregnant. I told my wife about the affair and the baby. My wife was going to divorce me but we went to marriage counseling and she had a change of heart. My wife welcomed the baby into our family and she has grown to love the child.......