Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 23 year old woman, living with my grandparents and I have a major problem with them. Recently my grandfather has been pressuring me to have a good relationship with my siblings and I’ve told him several times I’m not interested in getting to know them better. I know this sounds harsh, but I can explain. My birth mother is a hood rat, kitchen beautician, working at the dollar store and she dresses like she’s my age..................