Dear Steve and Shirley,  My husband drives me nuts in the bed, but not in a good way. He's 72 and I'm 68 years old. We have been married for 22 years and it's both of our second marriage. He has asthma, so I give him a breathing treatment most nights, but that doesn't help his wheezing all night. We have to keep the air down in our bedroom because if he gets hot, it gets worse. I said all of that to say that we can't have sex without him getting hot and then the wheezing starts..........................................