Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 28 years old and I'm dating a really nice 40 year old man. He's been married twice and according to him, both marriages ended because his wives got lazy and tried to deprive him of sex. He also complained about them spending too much money. Well since we've been together, he's been a great provider and money has never been an issue. I wanted to get to know him better to see if he's the reason he had the two divorces.  After almost a year of dating. I think it was the sex that drove his two wives away...................