Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married, but my husband and I haven't slept in the same bed for two years. His sleep meds didn't work and he would try to watch TV all night. I sleep lightly, so I told him that I needed the room to be quiet. He went and slept in the other room two years ago and never came back. After the first year, he moved all of his clothes into the room with him. He came to my bed a few times wanting sex, but he did not want to cuddle afterwards, so I stopped being intimate with him. Luckily for me, I travel every two months for my job, and I'm gone two weeks at a time. My last work trip was in July and I was having dinner with two other managers, a male and a female.........................................