Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your point of view on my situation. I'm a very successful black male in my late 30s. I have a career and I'm working on my doctorate degree. I own my own home and I live a great life. My only problem is that most of my friends that I hang out with are getting married engaged or are in a very serious relationship and I am the only one that is still happily single. My male friends are starting to put pressure on me to stress me out about finding one nice female and settling down.....