Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past 10 years, I have lived with a really good female friend. Over the years, we’ve shared a bed at times and we’ve had sex when it was convenient. Other than that, it was more of a roommate type of arrangement. She dated other men and I dated other women. When we were at home, we were best friends that happen to sleep in the same bed sometimes. We never had our boyfriends/girlfriends sleep over..............