Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in an “entanglement” with this pastor that I met 8 months ago. My office shared a parking lot with his church and he always greeted me with “Hello brown sugar.” I eventually told him my name because he’s married and I did not want appear to be flirting with a married man and a man of God. I didn’t entertain him at first but then he found me on social media and he started in-boxing me, telling me how lovely I am and how good I smell when I pass by him................