Dear Steve and Shirley, you two are very fashionable, so I need your advice on how to talk to my husband. He seems to be going through a midlife crisis or something similar. We’re both 56 years old and been married since we were 30. We did get married so I could become a U.S. citizen, but we were in love. I met him when he was stationed in my country and we both had a lot of growing up to do. He was never trendy or fashionable because he wore a uniform to work until he retired recently........................................