Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 53-year-old single female and I’ve been casually dating a man for 3 years. His wife died 6 years ago and he’s a single dad, raising a daughter. He lives in my complex and when we met, we instantly clicked and started dating. After a few months of dating, he told me he wanted to take a break so he could focus on his daughter. That was 3 years ago and I showed support by cooking for him occasionally and showing up at some of his daughter’s basketball games..............