Dear Steve and Shirley,  I'm a 52 year old divorced woman dating a man that is 57 years old.  We have been together almost a year, but, we have fundamental differences that might break us up.  We met at my cousin's 40th birthday party.  He was the DJ so I asked him to play some classic r&b hits because all he was playing was hip hop and we had a lot of older people at the party that weren't into the rap and hip hop music.........................