Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 32 year old black man, married to a white woman that is 30 years old. We’ve been married four years and have two children. My wife has 2 older brothers, 1 lives in the same subdivision as us and the other lives out of state, and I have never met him because I’m black. When I proposed to my wife, he told my wife that he’d never accept her marrying an N word and it broke her heart.................................