Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my late fifties and I’m dating a man that is a few years younger than I am. We’ve been together for 8 years and it’s been on and off because we live in a small town so everyone is always in everybody’s business. He’s a cheap skate and he knows he doesn’t make enough money to support me and his drinking habit, so I’ve asked him for years to get a better job or a second job.............