Dear Steve and Shirley,  I am a 52 year old female and I am dating a 60 year old young man.  We clicked instantly and we have been together for two months.  I may have been too forward with him after the first few dates because I wanted to rub and feel on him to see what he was working with.  I hugged him tightly one day and it felt like he was wearing a back brace.  I decided not to ask him about it right then..................................