Dear Steve and Shirley, I have two children with my high school sweetheart. We both come from seriously dysfunctional families and we were all each other had. Shortly after we graduated, I got incarcerated for 18 months on a drug possession charge. During this time, my kid's mother met an older guy and he began to take care of her and my kids. He bought her a new car and moved her and the kids into an upscale apartment. I’m not a fool, so I know there was give and take in this situation, but I was locked up, so what could I say? I’ve been out of jail for about 9 months and he has continued to cover all of my family’s expenses..................