Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a single black female in one of the craziest love triangles ever and I need your advice. A year ago, my kids and I moved to a new house and I became good friends with a married couple across the street. I got really close to the female and she and I actually started dating. Her husband found out and asked to be included in our sexual fun, so we let him join in often. She eventually talked her husband into letting me move into their house so we could all be together..............