Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a married man but I have not been happily married in a while. I have no intention of leaving my wife and I’m not a cheater. I own a small bar downtown and my best employee is also my worst employee. She’s been with me for so long, that I’ve overlooked her raunchy behavior for years. She is a hoodrat and I knew that when I hired her as a bartender. This was supposed to be a part-time job, but now it’s the only job she has because she is loud and unprofessional.................