Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 7 years and we have two young children. After having my second child, my desire to have sex decreased and it was a big problem in my marriage. My husband is a great dad and my best friend so I felt bad for him. I started back having sex with him, but I was never really into it like I had been in the past. I confided in my sister because she has a newborn too. Her child’s father broke up with her while she was pregnant, so she’s going through her own issues. I wanted to support my sister, so I told her to go out with her girls and I would babysit for her...............