Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 28 year old woman that just eloped with the love of my life. We dated for 7 years and we did not want to waste money on a big wedding, so we eloped and had a nice ceremony. I also wanted to elope so my husband’s mom wouldn’t be all in the mix trying to tell us what to do. She’s the reason that I waited so long to get married. She’s a meddler and gossiper and it’s not really her fault, because my husband tells her everything I do................