Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a middle age married woman and I’ve been married for over a decade. I work 2 full time jobs averaging 16-18 hours a day, usually 6 days a week. My husband has his own business and rarely works a 10 hour day and has consistent days and weeks off. During his down-time he finds the time and energy to help friends outside of our home but can’t seem to find the time to help clean our bathroom or wash his clothes..................