Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 46-year-old woman and I need your advice on dealing with the man I’m dating. He was the first in his family to graduate college and now he is a successful doctor with his own private practice. I am a doctor too and I work in a public health clinic, which is not in the safest community. My boyfriend loves to joke about me working in the hood. He is opinionated and arrogant at times and it drives me crazy..................