Dear Steve and Shirley, I am married to a man that was my King and he messed it all up by having a female best friend. He didn’t have a physical affair with her, but he had an emotional one and he shared intimate details of our marriage, good and bad. Then he encouraged her to call me and have a talk with me about how unhappy he is in our marriage. When she called, I got so tee’d off that I invited her over................