Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been friends with a great guy for three years and we have become the best of friends with the best sexual chemistry. Our sex is off the chain. He dates other women but he’s always said that he wouldn't get in a relationship without letting me meet the female and giving him my blessing. We never talked about us being in a relationship so I gave up hope early on. He found out I was dating a guy once and he got very upset and wouldn’t answer my calls for a whole week..................