Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 32 year old divorced woman, who filed for divorce after only 2 years of marriage. Right after we said “I do,” I noticed a change in my husband and he could go 3 weeks without having sex with me. He kept making excuses to leave the house and would be gone for up to an hour when he left to “run a quick errand.” Then about 8 months ago, I walked in on him as he washed himself off in our bathroom sink, after he claimed he went to Dunkin for a cup of coffee................