Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are in our late forties and we’ve been married for 20 years. We have one son that was active in sports and he worked with my husband, helping to build his trucking business. Our son is 19 years old and he recently left the nest and moved about 2 hours from us, to be closer to school. He decided to change his major and transfer to a better school for his degree program and I was ecstatic..................................