Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 34 years old and my husband is 48. We’ve only been married 6 years and I found out that he’s had a relationship with another woman for the past 3 years. Not only is he with this woman more than he’s with me, they have a two year old son together. When I married him, he didn’t have any children and I have 2. He adopted my children because their father passed away..............