Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a young man who is in love with my girlfriend and I feel a need to protect her. We have been dating for two years and I’ve met her family and I love them all, except for her father. I don’t know where to begin. Her father argues with everyone in the family and he has started a few fist fights with the other men in the family. He smokes weed constantly and he does it in front of the family............